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Current group: alt.dreams.
Slightly sexual dreams, santa and blindness...
| Baerana | | Rainey | | personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk | | personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk | | AngleWyrm |
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| | From: | Baerana | | Subject: | Slightly sexual dreams, santa and blindness... | | Date: | Thu, 20 Jan 2005 09:44:18 -0500 |
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 | 1) I was supposed to meet a friend of mine and go see Santa with him.
I had the feeling/idea that after word we'd have some kind of ual
encounter. Right before I was supposed to leave, my boyfriend came home
and distracted me so I forgot where I was going. We talked for awhile
then I went to sleep. My friend spent 6 hours in the snow waiting for
me, but he wasn't mad or upset at all, just worried about me.
(The friend and my boyfriend both exist in real life)
2) I knew a blind guy and had some intention of having an affair with
him. We were going to do this in a doctors office after hours. At one
point in the dream, he was the doctor and it was his office - at another
point, we were both about 15 and it was his father's (a doctor) office.
As we were going, things kept getting in the way - some friends
grabbed us and made us play video games with them... there was some
problem with mail being delivered... so we wound up never "hooking up"
Both of these dreams felt very similar... maybe some desire to have
w/ a very non-threatening guy? (My friend is VERY non-threatening and
it's possible a blind man would be the same way - I'd be more in control
and he wouldn't be judging me negatively) What's with the things
getting in the way? Any other thoughts?
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| | From: | Rainey | | Subject: | Re: Slightly sexual dreams, santa and blindness... | | Date: | Fri, 21 Jan 2005 14:41:51 -0600 |
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| My two cents:
It sounds like you really like/care for this other person, but you are being
held back by your boyfriend (either by choice or not)
The older man being a doctor sounds like someone who is older than you (duh)
Maybe more learned than you are (no problem with that. I am usually
attracted to older men and/or those who possess great intelligence).
Someone in a high position than you (S.E standing? Someone you have put on a
pedestal?)
It sounds like you are curious about ual relations with another person,
and these desires are made manifest in your dreams.
In my Austin Osmond Spare topic, I quoted something, which I will roughly
say here, again.
The reason for our dreams is our foreconscious (waking mind) overshadows our
unconscious. What goes on in our waking hours is assimilated into our
unconscious mind and viewed through, most oftentimes, symbolism via dreams.
Good luck in sorting yourself out!
--
"Does not matter - Need not be"
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| | From: | personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk | | Subject: | Re: Slightly sexual dreams, santa and blindness... | | Date: | Fri, 21 Jan 2005 21:16:53 -0600 |
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| "Rainey" wrote in message
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> My two cents:
> I am usually attracted to older men... who possess great intelligence.
ME! ME! ME! (hopping up and down, flailing arms wildly...) OVER HERE!!!
:-)
(eventually tires out and goes to pout in a corner...)
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| | From: | personalpages.tds.net/~rcsilk | | Subject: | Re: Slightly sexual dreams, santa and blindness... | | Date: | Fri, 21 Jan 2005 06:46:53 -0600 |
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| inhibitions and daily distractions are preventing you from having , *or*
you're allowing them to prevent you from having .
You sound kinda y ;^} got a picture?
In dream #1 (below), your friend is waiting for you to dispense with the
boyfriend as he doesn't like sloppy seconds...
"Baerana" wrote in message
news:oOWdnYmfsMRGXnLcRVn-pQ@comcast.com...
> 1) I was supposed to meet a friend of mine and go see Santa with him. I
> had the feeling/idea that after word we'd have some kind of ual
> encounter. Right before I was supposed to leave, my boyfriend came home
> and distracted me so I forgot where I was going. We talked for awhile
> then I went to sleep. My friend spent 6 hours in the snow waiting for me,
> but he wasn't mad or upset at all, just worried about me.
>
> (The friend and my boyfriend both exist in real life)
>
> 2) I knew a blind guy and had some intention of having an affair with
> him. We were going to do this in a doctors office after hours. At one
> point in the dream, he was the doctor and it was his office - at another
> point, we were both about 15 and it was his father's (a doctor) office. As
> we were going, things kept getting in the way - some friends grabbed us
> and made us play video games with them... there was some problem with mail
> being delivered... so we wound up never "hooking up"
>
> Both of these dreams felt very similar... maybe some desire to have w/
> a very non-threatening guy? (My friend is VERY non-threatening and it's
> possible a blind man would be the same way - I'd be more in control and he
> wouldn't be judging me negatively) What's with the things getting in the
> way? Any other thoughts?
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| | From: | AngleWyrm | | Subject: | Re: Slightly sexual dreams, santa and blindness... | | Date: | Fri, 21 Jan 2005 06:21:06 -0800 |
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| "Baerana" wrote in message
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> Both of these dreams felt very similar... maybe some desire to have
> w/ a very non-threatening guy? (My friend is VERY non-threatening and
> it's possible a blind man would be the same way - I'd be more in control
> and he wouldn't be judging me negatively) What's with the things
> getting in the way? Any other thoughts?
Maybe your boyfriend is getting a bit jealous, and trying to win your
attention/distract you?
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